Sunday, October 26, 2008

wtf is a WIFEY



Now the word WIFE according to websters means a female partner in a marraige. So where does the word WIFEY from. Like i find it quite cute when you get in a realationship you fall so deep where instead of the pet names like babes, baby, pookie, boo, snookums, we go all out with hubby and wifey. like the relationship aint been more then a week and already the 1st thing you see is ?????'s WIFEY. Now my personal opinion is you either a friend, girlfriend, or a wife, and half of the people sayin wifey and hubby are not even over 18 where they are not living off there parents and can afford to support that person they are calling wifey or hubby, and that's sum shit. I was reading a friends away message and she said when a boy calls you his wifey its a clear message for someone on the side after reading that i simply broke down the word in more than the english language =] .
lets break it down
WIFE means the female partner in english :
Y means>AND in spanish
when you combine the two you have a man with a wife(AND)= WIFEY . CRAZY RIGHT

so i asked some people(hubbies aka boys) i know what qualifies a wifey and heres what i got:

-loyalty, honesty, responsibility, confidence and compassion

-they are there in and out, through right and wrong, loyal, caring

-a girl you have been with for a min and you really like

-they have to be there for their man when they are down, by their man side no matter what, defends ther man through anything, supporting no matter what, "will fuck a bitch up for them", and love them no matter what.


my follow up question was how do looks play out with a wifey, if she not a 10 but you feel her thoughts

my favorite answer was

he said, think of it like this: if u see a bumb you would never walk up to them, but not knowing that they have everything in common and are perfect for you

another one was
" they play a role but not that major" and "i would fall on the side of her thoughts"

-note those answers qualify WIFEY

maybe i asked the question wrong but .... WTF QUALIFIES A WIFE?


just to make it clear im not knocking the wifey hubby scene , but just questing the scenes purpose.(NOT THAT I HAVE TO EXPLAIN MYSELF ON MY BLOG)

always closing off with a question (today there is two)

how much do we have to know about our wifey / hubby?

&&&

If it is so easy for a teenage boy to call his teenage girl wifey, why is it so hard for the adult man to call an adult woman his WIFE?


answer &&& leave suggetions....


-biz

6 comments:

Mr.HB said...

that post was pretty tough. you're on a roll. you really caught me wit the whole wife-y idea. your friend was right though. usually when you call a girl wifey, you're thinking bout somebody else or already got something. think about it, why are you putting a title on something if you only got one girlfriend?

AmandaSimone said...

i think your really have to ask that question to the males...and i didnt for get about the hubby situation tat is coming soon until then fill in hubby where there is wifey , because jjust like what i said about the black like me blog neither sex has time to judge because it is just a contradiction of themself

Anonymous said...

Wifey: Just another word used by boys to make a girl {{ not necessarily their girl }} feel special.
Some ppl use it to "G" a girlz head up.
N some ppl actually mean {{ according to their definition }} what they say.
Now To a ganstah wifey could mean a wide or die chick. but dat dnt mean she da onlii chick. it jus mean she # 1. n das onlii wit sum boys. Not saying all for all da 1 woman men out there.
Now wife: Onlii a real man can use that term and thats why a lot of guys out there cant fall a woman their wife. Cuz they havn't gotten out of the "wifey" stage.

Dis made me think of ma brain storm of "bust it baby" if u break down THAT song in english. Its jus not right. but girls out here hailing n praising that song. smh.

qqqqqqqqqqq said...

lol
WTF is a Wifey???
good question;
i agree wid tha spanish & english definition & tha y meaning and... makes sense to me.
wifey was a hood term i guess yu cud say... but it's become a teenage term that girls die to be not rly knowin or understandin wuh it means. dudes might treat wifey like a queen havin other qirls buh she #1 top notch... or she is the ONLY. there are different views & opinions... buh wifey & hubby are cute and so are baby... so idk
Good one BiZ

&& love, briit said...

in my opinion wifey is wife material. and vise versa. somebody with potential to spend yah life with. but totally agree. the word is a lil overrated and shud be used a lil carefully it's just liek the l word to me. u cant just b saying it to any ole body.

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