Now the word WIFE according to websters means a female partner in a marraige. So where does the word WIFEY from. Like i find it quite cute when you get in a realationship you fall so deep where instead of the pet names like babes, baby, pookie, boo, snookums, we go all out with hubby and wifey. like the relationship aint been more then a week and already the 1st thing you see is ?????'s WIFEY. Now my personal opinion is you either a friend, girlfriend, or a wife, and half of the people sayin wifey and hubby are not even over 18 where they are not living off there parents and can afford to support that person they are calling wifey or hubby, and that's sum shit. I was reading a friends away message and she said when a boy calls you his wifey its a clear message for someone on the side after reading that i simply broke down the word in more than the english language =] . lets break it down WIFE means the female partner in english : Y means>AND in spanish when you combine the two you have a man with a wife(AND)= WIFEY . CRAZY RIGHT
so i asked some people(hubbies aka boys) i know what qualifies a wifey and heres what i got:
-loyalty, honesty, responsibility, confidence and compassion
-they are there in and out, through right and wrong, loyal, caring
-a girl you have been with for a min and you really like
-they have to be there for their man when they are down, by their man side no matter what, defends ther man through anything, supporting no matter what, "will fuck a bitch up for them", and love them no matter what.
my follow up question was how do looks play out with a wifey, if she not a 10 but you feel her thoughts
my favorite answer was
he said, think of it like this: if u see a bumb you would never walk up to them, but not knowing that they have everything in common and are perfect for you
another one was " they play a role but not that major" and "i would fall on the side of her thoughts"
-note those answers qualify WIFEY
maybe i asked the question wrong but .... WTF QUALIFIES A WIFE?
just to make it clear im not knocking the wifey hubby scene , but just questing the scenes purpose.(NOT THAT I HAVE TO EXPLAIN MYSELF ON MY BLOG)
always closing off with a question (today there is two)
how much do we have to know about our wifey / hubby?
If it is so easy for a teenage boy to call his teenage girl wifey, why is it so hard for the adult man to call an adult woman his WIFE?
Why is it that women are able to bash men or make it seem like they are always the victim? Don't get me wrong beyonce's song "If I were a Boy" is great and has much meaning, but lets be real women we can be abusive. We are abusive because we don't allow our men to branch out and do right. Instead we look for each flaw to give more reason to scream and release a built up anger. In "If I were a Boy" she says "you don't listen to her, you don't care ghow it hurts" so lets really tap into the words. speaking from personal experienxce when the men in my life have something of importance to them I tend to drift off to thoughts about myself...so get real ... and for the fact of saying he don't care how it hurts. hurting to men and women may be two different things, but when it comes to "love" a man can love as hard as a woman. so neither sex has space to really judge the other, because who actually haves a perfect relaationship. it is true that you need to point out the flaws to rid them. so to role play is a great tactic, but the tactic can quickly turn into an altercation. the tactic becomes an altercation where instead of being the person you approach them as urself. i am still confused on this topic so to help me out i leave with this question
In a relationship, who really has the upperhand? and When does the upperhand become out of hand?
Today I came across a blog named "Beats and Food Stamps" and as I was reading it FaMe, the publisher, had wrote a blog named "Black Like Me." Now this being my first time reading his work, he had hit a hard topic, Why do black women expect black men to approach them knowing that they are going to dead the dude? Ladies we have to be real as black women or Young ladies are we expecting to much from our black men, have we created an image a perfect man not realizing the man who strives to make us happy? I can't give you all the juicy details of his blog, but ladies lets be real, how far does a relationship get if we down one another because of personality differences? another topic he had hit was , black men being called sell outs because of the women they date. for black women to judge black men on dating is a subliminal contridiction because everyday in the street especially in NY, you see black women walking down the streets with men of all differents nationalites and races , an not once have I heard the word sell out all I seem to hear is that they are moving up in social class by dating out of their race.
My question is ...is there a difference between men dating outside their race and women dating ouside there race?
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